Investment in relation

We encounter lot of relations as we live in society... friendship, love,a family etc. Not every relation has name and not with everyone can we develop a relation.
Wavelength match being the initial encounter, mutual trust respect and enthusiasm become the basis like bricks in a building. These are not seen individually as an entity, but it is the complete feel that we perceive from outside when it is built.
The way we invest our self in the relation to grow, is how it is sustained and takes it forward.



The process happens sensibly if both the parties are at same pace. Differences in speed in building the bond, makes us land at different places. Like how there are slow learners, few people's brain process slowly. Oops! not brain, it is the heart which process slowly. We have emotions inbuilt in us and the habit of  inculcating the feel of sensitivity is what matters in understanding our self and also others. This is where understanding comes in a relation to help each other understand each other and give its time to gel.



Everything in this universe takes its own time to settle down. We crave for something so earnestly that we just want it immediately in front of us the moment we think of it. Current generation human is impatient enough to interpret it as one sided relation or being unlucky or as fate.  
See others as what they are, not how you want them to be !! Stop interpreting, expecting and start living a pressure free life. Give your best and wait n watch how it goes ...

Blink while you think

Sometimes it so happens that we think continuously staring at someone or an object without blinking our eyes and suddenly come back to our world, thinking.. ' Oh! I should continue my work'...

As we start to think about something, we involve into it, we create a picture.. a picture completely different to the one we are in now, we create objects, we create characters, persons, actions, dialogues .. The thought in our mind takes a picture and takes a form. Now the actual thought process begins. For few, the so called dream sustains until the eye blinks and for few, someone/ something from the current world  reminds us that we are in this world.



If we look back and check what we have just gone through, we realise that we have the capability to create, sustain and destroy a thought. These capabilities exist in ourself because the god responsible for creation (Brahma), sustenance (Vishnu) and destruction (Shiva) exist in ourself. It is our duty to realise the god in ourself.

Copy Paste yourself to know yourself

Understanding self is not an easy job as we keep encoutering our slashed ego, reservedness, rigidness and what not. We lead social life and everything in this world is a relation of relations. Some relations are temporary, some are stable and some may be permanant. Our necessity of thirst for peace of mind 24/7 will push us to make sure every relation has an essense of pleasantness and coziness and it is absolutely in our hands to make it possible.
It is very simple, we feel comfortable if we make our surroundings comfortable; which actually depends on how good we understand our surroundings. Understanding here is to perceive and sense our reaction for every action that our surrounding gives us. This makes us remember famous proverb 'Treat others as how you want to be treated'. If every word that we utter, every gesture that we make, every expression that we give out comes back to us from other person in the same way that we did , can we really be able to take it? Certainly not, unless you are really really wise! Accepting things as they are requires extreme receptive power. This is the secret of knowing ourself and when you keep knowing it, you will feel the happiness of meeting an excellent person in this world.
The day you will learn to laugh at yourself will be the beginning of your growth.

A simple example here, what if we are surrounded by people with our mentality; i.e. surrounded by poeple with nature same as ours. Can you accept them as your friends? Those are none other than people same as self , possesing same level interpersonal skills, the sensitive nature, same level of ego and aggression as we have and what not!
In short, can we accept a copy pasted personality of ourself?... Give yourself few seconds to think on this. Is it tough? If your answers is Yes, then you must be very wise....; otherwise, Is it really tough to accept ourself? We know about ourself better than anyone else in this world and if we cannot accept ourself whom we know since we are born, can we really accept anyone else in our life? We keep hearing people say, happiness lies in our hands, its all about our perception towards the world. Yes! Its true, if we are incapable of keeping ourself happy, can we really make others happy? It is all about how well we know about ourself and make ourself stay in the state of happiness.

Gossips !!! Root cause analysis

Gossip !?.. Does that mean talking about rumours, creating a rumour or strengthening a rumour? Who actually creates a rumour?....
A brain with some part of idleness will tend to create a rumour;
A brain with unfulfilled wants attracts the rumour (most of us pass this phase as we fit this criteria ;) ).
A brain which forcibly made lot of compromises and sees others not compromising them strengthens the rumour.
Group of people with who fit all the above spreads the rumour.
People who doesn't fit in any of the above category enjoys the rumour.
Victims and scapegoats of gossiping say ' I hate people who gossip and i dont have time for them'...

Joy of life ..

We set our goals to achieve something big in life and strive for the same; The other way sometimes it is referred to as 'settling down in life'. Are we missing something in the hurry of settling down?Probably!! The joy of life.... What it means enjoying life !? For few, it is freaking out with friends, watch a movie, read a book, go for a drive, drink, smoke, sing, dance etc. For few, enjoying life is a waste of time as it cause distraction to their profession.

I had a 'wattt??' kind of opinion when people say, enjoy nature with cool breeze but it clicks when you are actually passing by green mountains covered with Fog with few drizzles making us close our eyes with a soothing music going on a side; Spending time actually with self and see ourself growing is the actual joy of life. Enjoying life according to me is evaluate your pending 'wants' in life and move ahead.
Enjoyment comes when you awaken your inner happiness. This can be done by self or through our loved ones by spending time with them.

Hello

I created my blog 4 years back and haven't really posted any quality stuff. Gathered some nonsense from web and simply copied it in my blog as i wanted my blog to carry some quality stuff. Life gave me different experiences with different people at different places and i started realising the change in my perception when i faced the same lifestyle after coming back from United states.


There have been lot of changes that took place in my life; Completion of studies, entering in Job through campus recruitment, wrote GRE but dropped idea of going abroad for studies. When i wrote GRE, i felt i was inclined towards going abroad, but again is it mandatory to go there for studies only?.. 90% of people whom i know go to US for pursuing their masters.. My idea was always to be lil Hatke from others. Soon after i joined my first company (I'm still in my first company btw :)) , i struggled hard to get a good name and hence theorem proved... I was given onsite opportunity to Seattle - Washington.